Motivational Monday - Unleash the Power of NOW! 💥⏰

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209

Motivational Monday
- Unleash the Power of NOW! 💥⏰

 

Many of us struggle to stay fully engaged in the present due to endless diversions. Think about it, our lives are a maze of distractions, and the list of things that can pull us out of the moment just keeps growing!

 

We may concentrate on a single task for a bit but, before you know it, another thought, ping, call or social media notification hits—and we're off chasing the next shiny object, leaving our main task in the dust. My recommendation, recognize these focus-stealers and craft a strategy to dodge them.

 

If you find your attention waning, hit the brakes; pause and take a deliberate moment to be fully present. Struggling with this? Consider meditation or yoga as tools to train your brain for better mindfulness.

 

When you're interacting with someone, truly HEAR them. I’ve shared this here before but, some people do not actively listen - they listen ONLY with an intent to respond. They’re not being selfish. Instead, they’re trying to make YOU happy and give you a response.


But, when we listen with an intent to respond, we miss key facts and don’t really HEAR what others are sharing. Listen without already formulating your reply. One effective method is to listen out of genuine curiosity, not in anticipation of your next words.

 

Mastering mindfulness is usually a learned skill; it's not always easy to be completely in the here and now, especially with the ever-increasing distractions around us. Aside from attentive listening, one hack I've discovered is time-blocking.

 

Why does this work? My go-to tactic is what I dub "over-blocking." Each calendar event is purposefully planned with a little extra cushion, giving me small windows to do the simple joys—like taking spontaneous photos of blooms, fielding unexpected calls, making impromptu calls, or scrolling through social media. This even helps to reduce my stress about punctuality, a pet peeve of mine—but that's a topic for another day!

 

Don't miss life's magic moments—listen attentively, practice mindfulness and catch those subtle hints that could turn out to be game-changers in either your life or those you care about.

 

Remind yourself daily of Jim Elliot’s quote: “Wherever you are, be all there." 

 

Happy Monday!

 

🎯 #StayFocused  #LiveInTheMoment 
#MindfulnessMatters  #TimeManagement 

 

© Debe Maxwell, CRS | The Maxwell House Group | Savvy + Company | SavvyBroker@me.com | Motivational Monday - Unleash the Power of NOW! 💥⏰

 

Comments (43)

Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Yes, girl! This is the perfect post for Motivational Monday. We all get distracted so easily. The best thing I can do is walk away from the phone and enjoy the outdoors. And when you are visiting, put the phone away! We have become a society of attention deficit people.

Sep 26, 2023 02:56 PM
TODD PICCONI INLANDEMPIRE & SOUTH ORANGE COUNTY, CA
TODD PICCONI REAL ESTATE - Dana Point, CA
Personal Engagement,Precision, and Professionalism

Debe Maxwell, CRS - that's awesome!  Reminds me of the quote by Alexander Pope, "Order is heaven's first law."  Congrats on the garage tidying up!  So wonderful to hear...inspiring me to work on mine again today!  I need to do it at least twice a week for an hour or little more each time.  💪

Sep 26, 2023 03:01 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Debe:

There is so much great advice in your post...where do I start?

I particularly liked what you said about recognizing the focus-stealers and developing a strategy to deal with them (at least when you can).

Listening to truly HEAR what people are saying is a key skill to have, and not just in business.

I'm not familiar with Jim Elliot but that quote is spot on and something to always keep in mind!

Jeff

Sep 26, 2023 05:21 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I learned early on in my real estate career, that listening was more important than talking.  

Sep 26, 2023 08:43 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Debe, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Sep 26, 2023 08:44 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you so much, Wayne Martin - you know I'm always honored to be featured in AR's Bananatude group!

Sep 26, 2023 08:45 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Ray Henson! I hope you're enjoying your 'spare' time on the pickleball courts! I know, at some point in my life, I'll be joining in on the pickleball craze! 

I'm the same way about punctuality and spending that extra time doing ANYTHING - knowing I'm there and ready. I arrived at a showing this morning about 20 minutes early and made a couple of calls and checked text messages and emails and felt ZERO pressure as I was showing my clients when they arrived. It makes a WORLD of difference in my world - and I am certain, my blood pressure too!

Sep 26, 2023 08:49 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Lori Mode! YES! Just turning it off is exactly what I do. There's nothing in our business that is an emergency and giving whomever I'm with, my undivided attention is so important to me. I give that same courtesy to everyone!

Sep 26, 2023 08:50 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, the multitasking requirement bar really has been raised over the years, hasn't it, George Souto!

Sep 26, 2023 08:51 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, you are spot-on, Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty - attention deficit is exactly what we all have become! I'm with you, leaving my phone home when I take a walk gives me so much more peace and makes me better at dealing with situations afterwards. 

Sep 26, 2023 08:53 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, I'm so ashamed of mine, TODD PICCONI INLANDEMPIRE & SOUTH ORANGE COUNTY, CA - it's taken me over 3 years to park both of our vehicles in the garage and it's still a hot mess!

I did have a contractor out to make a repair one day and I apologized for my messy garage as we were walking towards the garage for something he needed to get to. He said, "You know you can't trust anyone with a clean garage, don't you?!" I promised to use that to put my clients at ease whose garages are in need of organizing! LOL

Sep 26, 2023 08:56 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you so much, Jeff Dowler, CRS! It's a task that I battle nearly every day - there are simply more distractions than ever and it remains a challenge for me! As for listening, I think being a nurse made that a 'habit' for me and it has carried through to my current business and definitely my personal life.

I fuss all of the time about my MIL, who has always been one who listens to respond and it has forever driven me CRAZY!  I love her but, I don't love that about her! She will ask a question, I answer and then she follows up with another question that I answered in my original answer...and she does it ALL of the time. 🤦‍♀️

Sep 26, 2023 09:02 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

And you are spot-on, Myrl Jeffcoat! As my parents use to say, "you have one mouth and two ears for a reason!"

And, thank you for the feature, Myrl. I truly appreciate it!

Sep 26, 2023 09:04 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Debe Maxwell, CRS  now I need to do some research and find out who he is:)Endre

Sep 26, 2023 10:28 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Debe this is something I've been practicing for many years as I started meditating my 1st year in college. That along with all the long hikes and being outside in nature has been wonderful for staying focused as well as new ideas 'magically' popped up by simply being one with it all. Ahhhhh Such a wonderful gift to give oneself!

Sep 27, 2023 02:56 PM
Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

The present moment is all we have, really  . . . 

 

Sep 28, 2023 08:36 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Here's some interesting information on both he and his wife who continued his mission work after his death at SUCH a young age (28), Endre Barath, Jr. 

Sep 28, 2023 08:50 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

That TRULY is a wonderful gift to give oneself, Anna "Banana" Kruchten - without a doubt! I love being outdoors too - it truly does cleanse the mind and the soul.

Sep 28, 2023 08:51 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

It truly does and I so miss those hikes this past few years Debe!  But I keep doing them in my mind - Everything is Mind Over Matter.

Sep 28, 2023 09:51 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, that is so very true, Candice A. Donofrio - and I'd much rather live it than be distracted and miss half of it!

Sep 28, 2023 08:51 AM
Ed (Edward) Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

With people so heavily committed to so much and always trying to multitask, 100% attention is difficult if not impossible.

Trying not to over schedule and allow adequate time will also help one hear what is being offered and not just listen to it.

Sep 28, 2023 10:57 AM