Motivational Monday - Work Balance on Labor Day

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209

Motivational Monday - Work Balance on Labor Day

As I laboriously work for clients who are fighting to win a new home this lovely Labor Day, life/work balance is always an under-thought. Many of you know, I am a self-professed (and hubby-professed!) workaholic. While I have been working on that for several years, I believe this past year has helped me become more balanced. 

Labor unions set the standards in the mid-19th century for workers who now enjoy a 40-hour work week, minimum wage, sick leave, workers compensation, overtime pay, as well as child labor laws. The foundation was set to help create the most competitive workforce in the world — a workforce that made America the economic power it is today. Those laws are, today, being re-evaluated as studies have shown that employees who have even more time off, perform better when the ARE working! The jury is still out as to a change being made but, other countries have successfully proven this to be impactful in their own labor force.

Back to my point - labor laws encourage a proper balance between work and family through access to paid sick leave, affordable child care, as well as paid parental leave. My goals to find that balance have always been a struggle for me. I recently had a coach 'demand' that I delegate more of my responsibilities. 

 

Labor Day 2021

 



Grant Schneider will tell you that in order to be successful, you MUST delegate. So, I began delegating some of the things that I absolutely LOVE doing - including some of my marketing! Freeing up what I used to call, 'evening play,' as I assembled marketing pieces and 'played' online, I have discovered that I have FAR more fun with my hubby than I ever did before! In the past, he accepted my workaholism and never complained! Now, when I find myself having to work a little into my play time, he lets me know! 

 

Jack & Gracie

These babies are celebrating the holiday to the max!

 


Now that I have had to work this morning to ultimately win a bidding war for my client (YIPPEEEEEE!!), I will find a way to make up that time with hubby on this beautiful Labor Day. Maybe something on the grill? After all, isn't the belly the fastest way to a man's heart?!!

 

Relax and enjoy your time spent with family today but, also take a moment to remember why we even observe Labor Day. Do you have a little workaholism running through your blood that you need to address?!  

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | Motivational Monday - Work Balance on Labor Day

Comments (24)

Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I'm working on it, Grant Schneider! Sometimes it's a little difficult but, it's so nice when we can find that balance.

Sep 06, 2021 10:49 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

We would love that, Will Hamm! I hope you & Sharon have a lovely Labor Day!

Sep 06, 2021 10:51 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

That sounds wonderful, Ed Silva! Enjoy your non-laboriously Labor Day!!

Sep 06, 2021 10:55 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I COMPLETELY get it, George Souto - it's a difficult habit to change, for sure!

Sep 06, 2021 11:00 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Labor Day is apparently a day where half the country that works for the government or large corporations get the day off so they can do business with the other half of the counntry that has to work (small businesses, hotels, car dealerships, groceries, gas stations, theme parks, real estate agents, restaurants etc etc). Jeff 😎

Sep 06, 2021 11:05 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Establishing work life balance is tough for self employed individuals.

Labor laws encourage a proper balance between work and family through access to paid sick leave, affordable child care, as well as paid parental leave. 

Sep 06, 2021 11:44 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Hi Debe,  Thank you for the Labor Day information.  Balance is definitely key.  Hoping you had a happy and restful Labor Day Weekend.  May this weekend continue to refresh you throughout this year.

Sep 06, 2021 04:54 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI, now that is an excellent summary! I read it to my hubby and he agrees wholeheartedly! LOL

Sep 06, 2021 08:25 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I agree, Sham Reddy CRS! I believe we all struggle with that to some degree...at least we SHOULD! LOL

Sep 06, 2021 08:27 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you so much, Bob Crane! I hope you and yours had a delightful but, restful Labor Day as well. 

Sep 06, 2021 08:29 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Debe.

While I did work yesterday, I played more than I worked.  It was great, plan on doing the same this upcoming weekend

Sep 07, 2021 12:27 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393

Hello Debe - finding "balance" in any life endeavor is a major accomplishment as multi-tasking and a 24/7 on-call approach can sometimes(or is it often?) collide.   There is never enough time without proper self-management and being in charge of delegation.  Remembering ones priorities is paramount.  

Sep 07, 2021 02:38 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

In our field, it is difficult not to be a workaholic when clients always need us to work for them, haha.

Sep 07, 2021 05:21 AM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker/REALTOR® - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Work-life balance is so important, but how we balance is something that is unique to each of us. I'm sure you had a wonderful rest-of-the-day with hubby!

Sep 07, 2021 05:48 AM
Erik Hiss
Keller Williams Capital Partners Realty - Worthington, OH
You can trust me for all your real estate needs!

Work life balance is key! Spend too much time at work and your relationships suffer. Spend too much time with relationships and your work suffers. That fine tuned balance keeps one's mind in balance.

Sep 08, 2021 07:58 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I played a lot too, James Dray! It was a fun day and very rewarding, winning a bidding war on Labor Day too!

Sep 08, 2021 09:22 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Michael Jacobs, you sound like my favorite real estate coach - it should be Mission #1, keeping your own priorities in the forefront - ALWAYS! I kick myself when I let family slide and then reality sets in and I reel myself back in. I will admit, it's a daily challenge.

Sep 08, 2021 09:25 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

That is EXACTLY where I cave, Brian England! And, fortunately (or unfortunately) my family knows that and often accepts the workaholism because they know that it's in my DNA to be helpful. How DO you let your phone go to vm when someone needs you?!!

Sep 08, 2021 09:37 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I really did, Kat Palmiotti! I was so thankful that the listing agent had a family event that afternoon so, she was on a mission to get it done in the morning! I was 100% on-board with that! LOL 

I hope you had a wonderfully restful Labor Day!

Sep 08, 2021 09:38 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

You know, Erik Hiss, it's one of the biggest challenges of our lives/careers, isn't it? One day I'll find that balance and be able to maintain it 100% of the time. For now, slipping up every now and then - well, I'm not going to beat myself up too badly about it! 

Sep 08, 2021 09:40 AM