The Art Of Commenting

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

 There have been many comments and mentions about how some people respond to other blog posts. Here are some examples of unacceptable responses.

  • The same cut-and-paste comment on multiple blogs. 
  • A one-word answer like "yes" or "no." in the Q&A section
  • Or answering, "I have no idea."
  • Are you commenting just for points?
  • A generic comment that has no relevance to the subject.
  • "Thank you for sharing the information." Or...
  • "Have a nice day."

 

If you have a gripe, do something about it!

Do not call out the offending member.

They are not your problem.

 

 

  • Encourage good comments.
  • Ignore the "drive-by'' comments.
  • Write meaningful responses to your followers and new bloggers. 
  • If you disagree, do so in a professional manner. 
  • If you think the content is not good practice, unethical, or not in the best interest of clients or the public... You have the freedom (and maybe the obligation) to compose your post with your views.

Maybe we should give gold stars for good comments.

 

Problem solution Margaret Rome

 

 For those who have been on the platform for a long time, you can identify the commenter without seeing the person's name. They have a blogging voice. Do you?

There is an art to commenting.

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Margaret Rome
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Comments (48)

Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Margaret, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Jul 02, 2023 04:25 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Thank you, Myrl Jeffcoat, for the feature in OFC!

Jul 02, 2023 05:11 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret this has been an issue on ActiveRain from the very beginning, and it has gotten worst as time has gone by.   I have seen members comment day after day with the same comment no matter what the blog is about.

Jul 02, 2023 07:41 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

George Souto, Maybe we could send a link to this post when/if we comment back.

Jul 03, 2023 01:04 PM
Matthew Klinowski, PA
Downing Frye Realty - Naples, FL
Naples Golf Guy | Find Your Dream Lifestyle

Good morning Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400, excellent points on commenting. Sometimes I wonder if people have read posts before they comment. I find quality comments outweigh quantity. Enjoy your Monday!

Jul 03, 2023 05:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

The quality comments. are what we all strive for. Thank you Matthew Klinowski, PA 

Jul 03, 2023 08:06 PM
Steve Penner
Royal LePage / Pro Ledger Online Software - Winnipeg, MB
REALTOR / Pro Ledger Online (owner)

I appreciate the points made in this post. I think it's important to be respectful of the work of fellow bloggers by offering constructive feedback in the comments. Also it is beneficial for all involved to take the time to write meaningful responses that will add value to the conversation. Good post.

 

 

Jul 03, 2023 08:00 PM
Ricardo Mello

Agree!

Jul 09, 2023 06:47 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Steve Penner  I agree: "it is beneficial for all involved to take the time to write meaningful responses that will add value to the conversation.'' Good comment.

 

Jul 03, 2023 08:12 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

I loved reading the comments even more than the post! I notice that some of the most offending drive by commenters are not here in the comments on your post.  Hmmmm? I wonder!

Jul 04, 2023 04:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Lise Howe Good observation!

Jul 04, 2023 10:33 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

KAREN SANCHEZ  Good to see you here in the RAIN.

Jul 04, 2023 10:38 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

LOVE this post and have to say that I was SO relieved when the powers that be made Q&A comments of no value (ZERO points for them)! That seemed to have changed that part of the platform dramatically!

One of the things that drives me the most crazy is when someone comments on my title...and they don't really know what they're talking about because the title is the opposite topic of what is written in the post! I have ZERO respect for them. If you're going to take the time to comment, please respect me enough to READ my entire post so you'll know what the heck you're commenting on, right?!!

EXCELLENT post, Margaret!

Jul 04, 2023 08:20 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Debe Maxwell, CRS I think we have all wanted to write a similar post. Did not know that the robo-commenters will not receive points.  That alone will hopefully be a deterrent.

Jul 05, 2023 07:15 AM
Dan Hopper
Dan Hopper - Gold Way RE - Westminster, CO
Denver Broker / Real Estate Advocate

At the very least, comment about a topic within the posting, and add your experience of similar situations.... add to the Author's posting, reinforce its importance.

Jul 05, 2023 07:29 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Well said, Dan Hopper 

Jul 06, 2023 04:52 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Margaret, that only applies to Q&A though - not those who comment on our posts.

Jul 05, 2023 07:39 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

That's a start, Debe Maxwell, CRS 

Jul 05, 2023 07:54 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Dan Hopper, I so agree-- that when making a comment, ask yourself if you are adding to the author's blog post. Are you reinforcing and acknowledging the importance of the writer's words. It is about the author. I is not about the member making a comment for points.

Jul 05, 2023 07:42 AM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

Hi Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 I just can't understand why anyone would waste that much time unless it really is all about the points.  Honestly, life is too short. Why waste time cutting and pasting the same response message on other's posts?  I have seen this a number of times and just could not take the person seriously anymore.  Points are not worth getting a bad reputation over.  Just IMHO

Jul 05, 2023 02:41 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Diana Dahlberg ,  yes, I agree. Take a look at Lise Howe's  comment above from yesterday. 

Jul 05, 2023 02:54 PM
Edward Gilmartin
CRE - Boston, MA

Social platforms have made soMe voices louder than they other wise would be. Making comments many can see is too easy today. Years ago you had to write a letter to a news outlet hoping they would publish it

Jul 07, 2023 03:20 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Edward Gilmartin, Good point! It used to be difficult to get published and now all you have to do is start typing on your computer or smartphone.

Jul 09, 2023 07:52 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There just seem to be this thing of wanting to fully engage, but we’ve a little mystery at the same time so you’re not falling all over yourself oversharing. That can be high ar sometimes.

Jul 07, 2023 06:50 AM
Ricardo Mello
Manhattan Miami Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
Manhattan & Miami Real Estate Agent

Great post!

Jul 09, 2023 06:47 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Ricardo Mello, Now that is funny!

Jul 10, 2023 08:10 PM
Ricardo Mello

You are welcome 

Jul 10, 2023 08:37 PM